طَاعَةٌ وَقَوْلٌ مَّعْرُوفٌ فَإِذَا عَزَمَ الْأَمْرُ فَلَوْ صَدَقُوا اللَّهَ لَكَانَ خَيْرًا لَّهُمْ
[47:21]
Obedience and a gentle word (was proper); but when the affair becomes settled, then if they remain true to Allah it would certainly be better for them.
Were it to obey and say what is just, and when a matter is resolved on, it were best for them if they were true to Allah.
Obedience and a civil word. Then, when the matter is determined, if they are loyal to Allah it will be well for them.